Eliane

Six months later, I noticed changes in my skin color and a milky discharge. After an ultrasound, mammogram, and biopsy, I received my diagnosis: HER2+ breast cancer in October 2024. 
 

Getting diagnosed with cancer was not the hardest part for me. I was preparing my mind for a while since I had a lot of symptoms of breast cancer but making my family and friends to feel secure that I was going to be okay, was the most challenging thing that I needed to do.  I showed them how confident was and I made them to understand that now it was my moment to take care of myself and I was not going to be able to take care of their necessities for a while.

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I faced the challenge head-on with eight rounds of chemotherapy and a full mastectomy on my left breast. I didn’t need radiation, but I’m currently undergoing immunotherapy every three weeks and preparing for reconstructive breast surgery and an oophorectomy to further reduce my risks. For the next five years, I’ll take medication to keep the cancer at bay and receive bone-protecting treatments every six months. 
 

The journey wasn’t always easy—chemo brought nausea, dizziness, weight gain, bloating in my shins and legs, low energy, and some memory fog, making it hard to think sometimes. Menopause came early due to treatment, with joint pain, hot and cold flashes, and fatigue as unwelcome side effects. But what carried me through was the incredible support from my family, friends, and especially my fiancé. He was my rock, there every step of the way, shielding me from the stresses of the outside world and giving me strength when I needed it most. 

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Love and encouragement form my family and friends, combined with my unshakable belief that I would be cured, kept my spirits high. Connecting with others through support groups inspired me to share my story.  This experience has shown me the power of resilience and community. I’m stronger than ever, grateful for every moment with my daughters, grandson, and fiancé, and excited for the future. 
 

Cancer changes us in all different ways including financial and spiritual. It’s been the most challenging phase of my life but if I could change something in my journey I couldn't. I felt so much love that I couldn't imagine existed. I met new people that will be in my life forever. I cried and laughed. I was motivated by other moms who know how hard it is but I can confirm that I am a fighter and that will never change.